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<\/p>\nI wouldn\u2019t want it either in today\u2019s climate. Truth is, I don\u2019t want it, but I need it. Last Blog, we talked about the benefits of a church family. Here we will continue with the benefits and also explore why fewer people are a part of a church family. We\u2019ll talk a little about why some say, \u201cNo\u2026 I just can\u2019t stand them\u201d or \u201cI seem to never be fed there\u201d?<\/p>\n
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There are still those that are reading this thinking there\u2019s no way. Church is a joke. So why are so many people abandoning church? I think the answer is simple. We\u2019ve turned it into \u201cWhat can God do for me today?\u201d It\u2019s become a total \u201cconsumer\u2019s gospel.\u201d You don\u2019t like the 1st<\/sup> three services we offer? Ok, we have 4 more today. Don\u2019t like the coffee we offer? We\u2019ll make a change.\u00a0 Could you imagine what Jesus would have said to someone who wouldn’t follow Him because His schedule didn’t quite match up with theirs? “Look Mr. Carpenter, do you have a sermon on the Mount that will take place at 2:15-ish? That works best for my schedule.” Think about where the world would be if Peter decided that he got offended because Jesus said something he didn’t like. I mean really… Jesus looked at Peter and said, “Satan get behind me!” It’s not every day someone gets called Satan. Peter could’ve said “I’m going to the other church where they don’t offend me. They just let me be here and don’t challenge me like that!” The church and the world as we know it would be much different. Either we challenge ourselves to be better and be prepared for what that will take, or we just stay the same old jacked up mess we’ve always been and wonder why our relationships suffer.<\/p>\n Thank God for real men who could take tough words and stick with commitment and not run every time something got tough. We\u2019ve made way too many efforts to make sure church is perfect for everyone. We\u2019ve sold everyone on the idea that church is where you come to get stuff. This sounds like a good thing on the surface\u2026 but that\u2019s just it\u2026 it\u2019s on the surface. There’s zero depth. The biggest problem here is that we were born innate givers\u2026 not receivers. So receiving only lasts you so long. If you\u2019re not giving, you\u2019re not sustained. Like it or not, that\u2019s the way God made us. Our innermost beings require depth and growth. Constantly getting and not giving stunts that growth. If you don\u2019t believe me, start giving your child everything they want and not requiring them to give anything and see how that works. But where does the depth that we desire come from? I’m glad you asked.<\/p>\n You never really know what kind of relationship you really have with someone until it\u2019s tested with real adversity. Real adversity in church is not having 8 services to choose from but having to be there when the pastor is there. Real adversity is not liking what the pastor says because you think he\u2019s talking about you. Real adversity is not liking the people who sat in front of you this morning in service. Real adversity is being told something you don\u2019t like because it will require you to stop being one way and begin to be better. It will require you to be a better husband, father, wife, mother, boss, student. But it\u2019s uncomfortable. This is where it either gets really good, or it\u2019s just another feel good place to move on from. It no longer \u201cfeels good\u201d. We must make our decision on where to attend church solely based on our belief that this is where God has us, not how we feel about it. Because how we feel about it will change but God’s word never does.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n Don\u2019t get me started on worship teams. We\u2019ve turned that in to \u201cLook at me!\u201d Many worship leaders don\u2019t sing songs to worship, they sing to show you how good they are. I don\u2019t care. No one else does either. We\u2019ve turned it into a rock concert that everyone can hide behind. We stopped singing TO God and started singing ABOUT God.<\/p>\n When I was playing clubs, I had a large \u201cDude\u201d following. These guys would show up week after week. Among those that showed up every week were Eric Church and his (late) brother. They would come and request that I do something where I could \u201cgo off\u201d and do those \u201cvocal gymnastics\u201d. So I did. It was a show. When I led worship, I was more than capable of doing those same vocal moves\u2026 but I didn\u2019t. Because it wasn\u2019t about me. No one cared how good I was. They cared how good GOD was. I kept the melody line simple in church. I also refused to put God in a timed box. The job of the worship team is to LEAD the people in to the presence of God. Not to show everyone how stupid American Idol was for passing on you. The sooner we get back to actually\u00a0 worshiping the one true God, the sooner we can stop worrying about whether or not we can keep up with your \u201cone word over 27 notes\u201d routine. God hears your heart, not your Whitney\/Stevie impression.<\/p>\n The moment that we shut down the consumer gospel and offer real truth\u2026 the kind of truth that is uncomfortable\u2026 the kind of truth that challenges you to be better than you are, that\u2019s when we will begin to see people return to the place where they can actually grow. Until then, it’s only a business that produces results for bonuses and can only harvest, but never grow.<\/p>\n In summary, there is family, fun, encouragement, challenging, teaching, community, growing, giving, receiving and much more in a church family. It\u2019s much like anything else- what you put in to it is what you get out of it. Will you still get into heaven? Sure. But you won\u2019t experience all God has to offer here. Will your phone make calls? Sure. But you won\u2019t experience all your phone has to offer. Jesus said to the man on the cross next to him, \u201cToday you will be with me in Paradise.\u201d He went to heaven without ever attending a church service, but he never got to experience life to its fullest. He died shortly after that statement. Get plugged in. Serve. Are you going to like everything the pastor says? Nope. Are you going to like everyone there? I can guarantee you that\u2019s a \u201cnope\u201d. But that doesn\u2019t mean you run. You should commit to family. Family disagrees sometimes, but they work it out. I didn’t choose to have the three younger brothers that I have. I also didn’t choose to have the brothers and sisters in Christ that I have. God chose all of my family for me. Remember, there was ONLY ONE perfect human being to ever live\u2026 and He\u2019s not pastoring nor attending any church, anywhere (physically).<\/p>\n Stay Classy GP!<\/p>\n Grainger<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" I wouldn\u2019t want it either in today\u2019s climate. 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