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I can remember growing up, I played a lot of sports. No matter which sports I played, there were a few constants. I wanted to win. My coach liked to yell. If I was disrespectful to anyone, I was quickly dealt with. Win or lose, I got my juice box and relaxed on the ride home. But I never remember the refs. In fact, we were always told not to say a word to the refs\u2026 that this was coach\u2019s job, not ours. So we never got involved in the ref bashing. As I got older, that changed. My smart mouth got me in so much trouble, that I literally once called out a defense \u201cTwelve!\u201d, which was our 2-1-2 and was given a T. The ref said \u201cI heard what you said!\u201d I said \u201cyes, my teammates heard it too\u2026 I called the defense.\u201d He looked at the coach and said \u201cif you don\u2019t take him out, I\u2019m going to throw him out!\u201d The fact was\u2026 I had a reputation\u2026 and not a good one. I remember a lot of fun things, bad things, tough things from those days in sports. But one thing I can never remember doing back then was\u2026 well\u2026 I don\u2019t ever remember thanking the refs. Ever. For anything.<\/span><\/p>\nI can remember when I was little, my dad was my coach. So he had to be at every game. He would\u2019ve been regardless. He went to work. Took that money and put me and my brothers in sports. I can remember him coming to my brother\u2019s defense because I couldn\u2019t. I can remember him working late hours just so we didn\u2019t have to ask if we were going to eat that night. I can remember him driving all the time so my mom didn\u2019t have to bother with that\u2026. She was too busy reaching in to the back seat smacking us around. Ha. I remember every time someone died, the family called him and he left. Every time someone was very ill, he was called, and he left. I remember the absolute tongue-lashing he gave an elementary school principal for man-handling me in the parking lot. I remember the times he would go to practice when he wasn\u2019t the coach. I remember the time he built me and my brother bunk beds\u2026 of which my younger brother pushed me off and gave me my first broken bone. One thing during all of that I don\u2019t remember\u2026 well\u2026 I don\u2019t remember thanking him. For any of it. Ever.<\/p>\n
Then there\u2019s the time a police officer pulled a speeding teenager over who had to give a presentation for school and didn\u2019t know how to tie a necktie so he was on his way to his friend\u2019s house to get help. The police officer had him get out of the car and he tied the young man\u2019s tie. Or the time the officer saw a homeless man with no shoes on and went and bought the guy new shoes and socks and put them on him. How about an officer in Pennsylvania is eating at a restaurant the day after the Dallas shootings where a man killed 5 police officers and injured 11 more just because they were the police. A couple is about to be seated next to the officer\u2019s table. They abruptly say \u201cno, I don\u2019t want to sit there.\u201d They made eye contact and it was clear why they didn\u2019t want to sit near the officer. This officer paid for their meal in an effort to bridge the gap. These officers have a couple of things in common besides being police officers. 1-They did what they did because they care about people and had no idea their act of kindness would go public. They just did it because it was the right thing to do. 2- And the other thing they have in common is that most likely, when they went to their next call, they were not thanked\u2026 by anyone.<\/p>\n
So here\u2019s a big thank you. To the ref that gets underpaid and overworked. Who gets yelled at every single night on the job. Who gets ridiculed and has his character questioned every 5 minutes while attempting to do his job to the best of his ability. Who gets called everything BUT a referee by the multitudes shouting down towards him as he runs by. Who is given no credit for the countless hours he or she spends reading the rule-book and watching plays to get better. Who leaves his family night after night. To the guy who cares about his sport but cares about the kids and the relationships MORE. THANK YOU for the sacrifices you make.<\/p>\n
Here\u2019s a huge thank you to the dads that sacrifice tirelessly without ever receiving or even expecting a thank you. To the guy that speaks life into his daughter. To the guy that won\u2019t let his son settle for mediocrity. To the guy that always eats last and listens first. To the guy that works but lets the kids enjoy the fruits first. To the guy who stays up late to make sure all the Christmas gifts look just right (if a kid reads this, this is before Santa comes). To the guy that teaches his boy to be a man by treating his wife with the utmost respect and serving first rather than receiving first. To the guy that works hours on his daughter\u2019s car just in time for her to jump in it and go be with her friends. THANK YOU.<\/p>\n
To the officer that risked his life so that we can be safe. To the guy that realizes he may be saying \u201chave a good day\u201d to his wife for the very last time\u2026 every time he goes to work. To the guy that does it right only to be overshadowed by the bad apples. To the officer that is ridiculed and scoffed at and chooses not to take that home. He leaves it at work. To the guy that gets called every vile name in the book and still does CPR on that person to make sure they live. To the guy that defends your right to call him a Pig. To the countless, life-changing sacrifices you make on a daily basis\u2026 THANK YOU.\u00a0![\"\"](\"http:\/\/tidbitsofaudacity.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/thanik-you-300x300.jpg\")
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Do yourself and your community a favor and start finding the thankless and thanking them. It will go a very long way. Stop talking about how the world needs to change and BE the change you want to see. Start with Gratitude. If you\u2019ll start each day with gratitude, the rest of the day stays in proper focus and perspective. Prove me wrong. I dare you.<\/p>\n
Stay Classy GP!<\/p>\n
Grainger<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Let’s take a walk down thankless lane… I can remember growing up, I played a lot of sports. No matter which sports I played, there were a few constants. I wanted to win. My coach liked to yell. If I was disrespectful to anyone, I was quickly dealt with. Win or lose, I got my … <\/p>\n