{"id":1110,"date":"2025-09-12T12:46:27","date_gmt":"2025-09-12T18:46:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tidbitsofaudacity.com\/wordpress\/?p=1110"},"modified":"2025-09-12T12:46:28","modified_gmt":"2025-09-12T18:46:28","slug":"mind-molders-and-life-savers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tidbitsofaudacity.com\/wordpress\/index.php\/2025\/09\/12\/mind-molders-and-life-savers\/","title":{"rendered":"Mind-Molders and Life-Savers"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2><em>It\u2019s Where We Draw the Line<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Excuse me for another pop-up post, but the newest events called for it.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you weren\u2019t aware of the absolute institutional ideological Marxist capture before this week, you\u2019re aware now. It is nothing short of Cluster B-infused moral decay. But before we get too deep, let\u2019s clarify.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/tidbitsofaudacity.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/MTSU-pic.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1112\" width=\"318\" height=\"425\" srcset=\"https:\/\/tidbitsofaudacity.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/MTSU-pic.jpg 479w, https:\/\/tidbitsofaudacity.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/MTSU-pic-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 318px) 100vw, 318px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2>Free Speech<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>I am a free speech advocate. I disagree with almost everything Harry Sisson ever says. But I will openly defend his right to say it. I believe people say hateful, hurtful, and harmful things on the internet. Hiding behind their keyboard shield like the snakes behind comedy and tragedy masks. But I fully believe in their right to say it. In fact, I want them to say it. So we can all see who the tyrants are. Who the psychopaths are. Who the Cluster-B RCT candidates are. I want you to speak so I know what is out there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Thanks for reading Tidbits of Audacity! Subscribe for free to receive new posts every Tuesday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Following the election of Trump, a shift began to take place. People all over the political spectrum were beginning to agree that the far left had gone too far. We had to find normalcy. Peaceful dialogue. Common sense. Biology needed to mean something, especially in sports. Merit meant something, especially in the workplace. With the assassination of Charlie Kirk, not only did that sentiment not soften, it just got louder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/tidbitsofaudacity.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/mind-molders-pic-1024x672.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1111\" width=\"628\" height=\"412\" srcset=\"https:\/\/tidbitsofaudacity.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/mind-molders-pic-1024x672.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/tidbitsofaudacity.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/mind-molders-pic-300x197.jpg 300w, https:\/\/tidbitsofaudacity.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/mind-molders-pic-768x504.jpg 768w, https:\/\/tidbitsofaudacity.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/mind-molders-pic-1536x1008.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/tidbitsofaudacity.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/mind-molders-pic.jpg 1857w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 628px) 100vw, 628px\" \/><figcaption>L: Haley Kreidel\u2014 Nashville 911 emergency dispatcher; R: Laura Sosh-Lightsy\u2014 MTSU Assistant Dean<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2>Death Celebration<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>There\u2019s a zombie-style apocalypse of people celebrating the death of one man who stood for civil discourse without violence. Reread that sentence and let that sink in. As<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Lou Perez<\/a> said so well,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cI have come across people who believe that<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol><li>It\u2019s OK to murder you if you express opinions they disagree with <em>and<\/em><\/li><li>You should not be able to own a gun to defend yourself against people who believe it\u2019s OK to murder you for expressing opinions they disagree with.\u201d<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>I did not agree with everything Kirk said, nor how he said it. But I agreed with the fact that we should have more civil discourse without violence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I am not a fan of \u201c<em>cancel culture<\/em>.\u201d Never have been. Never will be. People should not lose their jobs over comments made. For years, people have been losing their jobs over saying something pro-American or pro-Western. For instance, schoolteacher <a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/@SecretScholars\">Warren Smith<\/a> conducted a Socratic thought experiment with a student. When he suggested that the student think through facts before assuming and claiming that J.K. Rowling was hateful, and after the student came to his own realization through, what counseling calls Motivational Interviewing, Smith was fired. This should have never happened.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>Exceptions To the Rule<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>However, there are clear exceptions to this concept. One basic exception is economic. If you own a business or provide a product and speak in contradiction to your clientele, expect to be cancelled. Ask <a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/apnews.com\/article\/tractor-supply-ends-dei-climate-goals-ab9e570d39095de6bead7fbfe76a6edc\">Tractor Supply<\/a>, <a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/thehill.com\/business\/4836609-harley-davidson-ends-diversity-inclusion-program\/\">Harley-Davidson<\/a>, or the <a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.history.com\/this-day-in-history\/march-12\/the-dixie-chicks-backlash-begins\">Dixie Chicks<\/a>. It\u2019s simply not a good business move.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But maybe the more important example is professions where you are either a <strong><em>mind-molder or a life-saver<\/em><\/strong>. Educators, first responders, therapists, just to name a few. More recently, here\u2019s a list of professionals who are mind-molders or life-savers and have been removed from their position:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>Toledo fire and rescue firefighter, \u201cWish the guy was a better shot\u2026\u201d<\/li><li>Nashville 911 dispatcher<\/li><li>Assistant Dean of Students, Middle Tennessee State University (MTSU, where I am proud alum)<\/li><li>Teacher, Greenville County School District, South Carolina<\/li><li>Executive Assistant to Vice Chancellor of Development, University of Mississippi (Ole Miss)<\/li><li>Staffer at Ole Miss<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2>Life-Savers<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Now ask yourself, if your life was on the line, would you want to worry about dying due to a MAGA hat or Harris\/Walz T-shirt? Think of it this way. A firefighter in Toledo rushes into a building, sees a man bleeding out and has the chance to save him. When he sees the MAGA hat, he thinks to himself, \u201cOne less scumbag.\u201d Then \u201cfails to stop the bleeding.\u201d Comments about being happy a man died for his beliefs make it entirely plausible someone would do this on the job. Or how about the dispatcher in Nashville?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>Dispatcher (D) 911, what\u2019s your emergency?<\/li><li>Person (P) someone is trying to break into my house screaming something about my Trump flag on my porch!<\/li><li>D: Ok. Stay on the line and we will get someone there.<\/li><li>Then the dispatcher thinks, \u201cAnother MAGA down!\u201d And simply doesn\u2019t send anyone out but pretends she does. Or waits so long, the assailant enters and kills them.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2>Mind-Molders<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The other side is mind-molders. I firmly believe that any educator who trains a person what to think, rather than how to think, should not be educating anyone. There is simply no place for that. This includes teaching someone that they should be republican, democrat, conservative, or liberal. Educators should not be teaching anyone that they should espouse these ideals, but rather that they should learn how to see all sides and explore these ideals. For instance, if you believe it was OK for Kirk to die because he was homophobic or transphobic, do you also feel this way about the Palestinians? Because they are very open concerning their stance on these issues. That is exploring all sides.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Or my industry\u2014 counselors, coaches, and therapists. I firmly believe if you say something publicly acknowledging the desire for another\u2019s death, you should lose your license. How can you claim to care for people, advocate for people, and help people achieve stated goals if you are calling for the death of those you don\u2019t agree with? It goes against every code of ethics in the industry. Which one\u2019s you ask? Let\u2019s look at a fellow Substacker\u2019s comments\u2014 who happens to be a therapist.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\"><p><a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/substack.com\/@michellekohut\/note\/c-155163757\">Listen, these MFkrs call for the death of INNOCENT humans on the DAILY.<\/a><\/p><p><a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/substack.com\/@michellekohut\/note\/c-155163757\">I will start calling for THEIRS. We don\u2019t have to be some f*ing version of \u201cpeaceful\u201d. WE ARE AT WAR.<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Or<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\"><p><a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/substack.com\/@michellekohut\/note\/c-155121413\">IT IS OK TO CELEBRATE THE DEMISE OF NAZIS<\/a><\/p><p><a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/substack.com\/@michellekohut\/note\/c-155121413\">IT IS OK TO LAUGH AT POWERFUL KARMA<\/a><\/p><p><a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/substack.com\/@michellekohut\/note\/c-155121413\">IT IS OK TO ADMIT YOU HAVE ZERO FEELINGS ABOUT MURDERED FASCISTS<\/a><\/p><p><a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/substack.com\/@michellekohut\/note\/c-155121413\">IT IS OK TO TELL PEOPLE TO SHUT THE F**K UP WITH THEIR SELF RIGHTEOUS BULLS**T<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Directly from the mouth of a therapist. Here are some codes she violated:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li><em>A.4.b. Personal Values<\/em>. Counselors are aware of\u2014and avoid imposing\u2014their own values, attitudes, beliefs, and behaviors. A statement wishing death on someone clearly shows imposition of personal values, and is inconsistent with respect for client autonomy<\/li><li><em>A.4.a. Avoiding Harm<\/em>. Counselors act to avoid harming their clients, trainees, and research participants and to minimize or to remedy unavoidable or unanticipated harm. Publicly calling for someone\u2019s death is a form of speech that may create an unsafe, hostile, or discriminatory environment for clients with different views.<\/li><li><em>C.5. Nondiscrimination<\/em>. Counselors do not condone or engage in discrimination against clients, students, or supervisees based on political affiliation, beliefs, or ideology.<\/li><li><em>NASW 6.04 Social and Political Action<\/em>. She obliterated this one.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>So yeah, I firmly agree with the investigations, unpaid leave, loss of license, and firing of these individuals that show little to no human decency. I don\u2019t want this type of moral infection to be in mind-molders or to have an impact on life and death. Go be a politician. They say hateful things every day and no one cares.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Stay Classy GP! (In the face of classlessness)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Grainger<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s Where We Draw the Line Excuse me for another pop-up post, but the newest events called for it. If you weren\u2019t aware of the absolute institutional ideological Marxist capture before this week, you\u2019re aware now. It is nothing short of Cluster B-infused moral decay. But before we get too deep, let\u2019s clarify. 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